How to find friends

Eternal Moon

Eternal Moon

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I'm not sure why I'm posting this here, but...

I have autism/assburgers/whatever you call it (no, really!), and.. It is very difficult for me to find friends.

I just don't have anyone to talk to. My mother is busy with magical shit, I'm not growing up with my father, but with my stepfather, who tried to do something bad to me last summer, my grandmother does nothing but watch shit on TV.

And when I find someone on the Internet, it turns out that they are busy with something. They have jobs, games, relationships and some other shit.

What should I do with myself?
 
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Eternal Moon said:
jobs, games, relationships and some other shit
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it may help having one or more of those things yourself, they can make you more interesting. For example, all I'd know about you right now would be that you have assburgers, made the decision to join EDF, are almost certainly young and female and have an oddly high interest in semites sandniggers of different religions killing each other.

Of all these things, you being probably young and female are the only properties that would make you interesting to some people, and probably not in a sense you are looking for (which is as a cumdumpster*).

*and of course as a projection screen for @TardChick s fantasies of romantic lard-fueled pursuit
 
Maysam said:
it may help having one or more of those things yourself, they can make you more interesting. For example, all I'd know about you right now would be that you have assburgers, made the decision to join EDF, are almost certainly young and female and have an oddly high interest in semites sandniggers of different religions killing each other.

Of all these things, you being probably young and female are the only properties that would make you interesting to some people, and probably not in a sense you are looking for (which is as a cumdumpster*).

*and of course as a projection screen for @TardChick s fantasies of romantic lard-fueled pursuit
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Thanks for the answer.
 
start developing a hobby and then work your way into a group that is also interested in that hobby so you have stuff to discuss with other people.

you like drawing? do more of that n then branch out from there. it would be better to do on a more popular social media site than a dying web forum with a half-retarded userbase like this one, tbh
 
How to start having friend(s)? I have no easy answer for you. In any event, do not take any advice that I give when I'm not being sincere, which is very difficult to determine, thus my predicament.

If you are young and shy, I would follow @minty advice. You need to be able to put yourself out there and risk getting hurt. Getting hurt emotionally sucks. We all know from first hand experience. I can tell you about this in a way that doesn't involve drugs and self flagellation and getting ganged up on and bullied for my childhood.

I always liked giving people gifts. This is a double edged sword. People like receiving gifts, but that can also make the people that you don't want to attract to you want to use you in this way. Me, I don't care, I would rather freely give to people and have them "kind of like me, kind of respect me, hey there's that guy you don't really need to worry about, he's trouble, but not really, he's just figuring himself out this way, lol, what an idiot".

You can make friends this way, but not the kind you really want to attract. I found that out the super hard way and because I'm kind of retarded and like punishment, I never really learned to do it another way. The flip side of that is that I now know who I am and I really don't want to go seeking innocent people who genuinely like me and corrupt them with whatever immorality that I have absorbed along the way. So, yeah, I "could" make friends easily, but I don't want to because I know which kind of people I draw and I need to make a clean break and abandon what I've done before so I don't turn others down this dark path of mine.

For you, you just have to trust your instincts. If you are indeed "on the spectrum" in any way shape or form, you will be aware of those people that are no good for you. The only problem is that becomes a game in itself. You end up looking for that one or two things that cancels someone out from this equation of being a good friend.

tl;dr - trust what Minty said and put yourself out there with like minded people. And please don't tell them everything that you may or may not do on the bad side of your life like I do. Make friends first, then make fun of yourself when you are in the presence of good people.
 
This is why you proofread before you hit enter when you are a pink banner.

Also, for practical advice:

Don't dominate conversations even though you want to talk up a storm. Say something, allow time for a response, say something that correlates to that response, continue in a normal conversation. I have immense difficulty with that one.
 
Oooooooooh, taking a genuine interest in something that you were not interested in before because your friend has an interest in this thing is a great way to make friends. You have the power to do this.
 
minty said:
start developing a hobby and then work your way into a group that is also interested in that hobby so you have stuff to discuss with other people.

you like drawing? do more of that n then branch out from there. it would be better to do on a more popular social media site than a dying web forum with a half-retarded userbase like this one, tbh
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Eternal Moon said:
What should I do with myself?
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"draw" gay.
"get a job" gay and a slave to the economic market
"find a hobby." gay, loner, and strong femcel vibes.

All these suggestions would just make you an autist with a job, etc., and the drawing one - you would probably end up drawing trannie anime furries getting pegged for commission, and having a stamp collection.

You can have all these interests and others but still not have any friends. Look at the userbase of this forum. It's the same shit.

The real question is: do you want to have a companion (activity date/person) or an actual friend. The internet is full of all kinds of interests and people meeting in that group to partake in their shared interests. (activity dates)

Friendship is based on trust. You have to be able to trust someone and the in turn you. If you don't then you're just both spitbubble blowing in the same room and have no real connection. The best way to earn friendship is to share something of yourself, your personality, your values, etc with someone you would like to be friends with., and they in turn share something with you. It's a relationship founded on mutual sharing and trust.

Which is why, if of age, I suggest you start an Only Fans page. You'll share pictures of your butthole and SIMPs will share their money with you (after of course the jew owner takes his cut and uses it to fund the genocide in Gaza. (yes really) )

In all due seriousness, if your condition makes you want to do antisocial things like pick your nose in front of people and fling the boogers at them when speaking to them, then perhaps not do that. But, in this day in age I be you there are legions of SIMPs willing to subject themselves to that sort of treatment. Some may even pay for it.

In short, in absence of starting an Only Fans page:
1. find something you really enjoy.
2. don't do autistic things when meeting people. (saying you're on the spectrum will only buy a certain amount of leeway.)
3. Don't be afraid of speaking about what you enjoy about that particular subject. There are techniques you can employ which can help you get past this. Speaking into a mirror. Practicing what you'll say and how you'll say it. ( muttering "hello, it's nice to meet you," can be actually more harmful than just staring at them like a potato.)
4. and if this person doesn't like you/show interest don't take it personally. and the more you practice the more natural you'll feel being around new people.
5. Lastly, avoid anyone that says things that are barbs. (sarcastic toned "oh you look nice today" or people who constantly make you the butt of jokes)
They are jews and or bullies. jeoos and bullies are sensitive to insecurity and like to take advantage of this and will use your vulnerability against you.

Good luck with your Only Fans page.
 
Call Me Tim said:
Which is why, if of age, I suggest you start an Only Fans page. You'll share pictures of your butthole and SIMPs will share their money with you (after of course the jew owner takes his cut and uses it to fund the genocide in Gaza. (yes really) )

In all due seriousness, if your condition makes you want to do antisocial things like pick your nose in front of people and fling the boogers at them when speaking to them, then perhaps not do that. But, in this day in age I be you there are legions of SIMPs willing to subject themselves to that sort of treatment. Some may even pay for it.
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hope he actually does it
 
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